Ngoko, wenza i-mess, kwaye ngoku kwakuyimfuneko ukusombulula ingxaki, ngoko wagqiba ekubeni ahlambele iqhude elikhulu lenkosi yendlu, kwaye wayenza ngokugqibeleleyo kangangokuba wade wamkhotha, ukuze aqhubele le nzwakazi. Emva kokuba eyifakile, wayenza kakhulu, wamfaka njengoko bekufanele, ihlwempu, wada wancwina, kodwa ukugweba ngendlela iqhude elinjalo linyamalala ngayo, isiphelo sinye, wayenayo le asiyiyo yokuqala.
Unqume kuqala ukuba azithande ngeethoyi zesondo, emva koko wabonisa umdla kumfana okwisikhundla somfazi wehashe. Kodwa ngaphandle kokucenga.